by: Are you full of indescribable happiness with constant thoughts to your wedding day?
Maybe you were and now you are on stress overload. Since you’ve said “YES” you probably have many more questions than answers. How will you share the news of your engagement? Who makes the final guest list? Color scheme, formality, tone, traditions, special needs, vendors, venues, decorations... And then of course, there is the budget to consider. Oy vey!
I’m sorry if I’m increasing your heart rate and adding to your anxiety.
But alas, no real worries. We live in a high-speed era of information with many answers literally at the tips of your fingers, available through referral, books, and the internet. Plus, there is always the option of calling your maid of honor at any time of the day (lol).
Stress seems to come easy when planning a wedding while everyone is telling you to “enjoy the process.” Is it a lofty goal or is it attainable? What’s the cure for this stress giant looming over every decision to be made? Whenever I’m stressed, I refer to the KISS philosophy of keeping it simple and going back to the basics! Maybe in this case, going back to the basics involves reconciling and prioritizing what is truly important about getting married.
How do you deal with the stress?
Reconnect with your honey and often. I’m assuming you’re getting married because you love each other. Be sensitive to each other’s desires and needs and then extend this sensitivity to others. A couple in love is truly remarkable and undeniable to those around them. There is something very beautiful about a couple that know themselves as individuals and each other as a couple. It is reflected in their decision making~ from beginning to end.
Consider a wedding you attended that you really enjoyed. What was it that made it so enjoyable? Was it the beautiful table settings or the lovely dresses? In my experience, it has nothing to do with “things” but everything to do with the love and expressions of joy extended from the couple themselves.
No matter where you may be in this wedding preparation time, take the time to reconnect with one another, and realize what is truly important!
My very, very best,
Heidi
Photo Courtesy: Distinctive Images by Jason
