by: I wonder what Emily Post {1st edition} would have to say about cell phones in modern weddings. Would she say NO WAY--leave them in your horse carriage out back, or would she take a kinder, gentler approach toward our digital culture? It's hard to say but one thing is for certain--cell phones are here to stay. And as technologies and media evolve across the platforms, basic social media etiquette should remain the same.
{image: Evermore Photography}
Social etiquette for digitally-inclined wedding guests:
Be respectful:
- Mute or better yet, turn off your cell phone during the ceremony.
- Honor the wishes of a couple that wants their wedding unplugged or partially unplugged.
- Let the professional photographer take photos. Try not to get in their way as they are the ones being paid to capture the candid moments!
Be kind:
- Don't post photos willy-nilly. If someone doesn't realize they're photo is being taken, ask their permission before posting.
- Not too pretty! If you've captured someone in a less than flattering position, angle or circumstance, don't share it.
For the digitally-inclined bride and groom:
Many couples welcome photo swapping and are using paid apps like Wedding Snap to collect photos into online albums or using #hashtags for live Instagramming slide shows. These are wonderful for getting that 3600 view of your wedding.
How about you?
Whether you prefer plugged or unplugged, here are a few ideas to help you get the word out:
- An announcement via your officiant. A brief mention before the ceremony starts should suffice.
- Add wording to your programs. Be up front about your wishes to be partially or totally unplugged.
- Use signage. Place creative signs in strategic areas where you know guests will be: by the guest book, reception tables, bathrooms, etc.
What do you think? Plugged or unplugged?
