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Wedding planning is a rollercoaster, exciting, overwhelming, and full of decisions you didn’t even know you had to make. No matter how much research you do, there are always things you learn along the way that you wish you had known from the start.
To save future brides from some of those "I wish I had known" moments, we’ve gathered insights from real brides who have been through it. Here are five things they wish they knew while planning their wedding:
Look at Budget before you Plan
Wedding costs can add up fast. Many brides jump into planning without a clear idea of what things actually cost, leading to unexpected surprises. Having a sample wedding budget as a reference before booking anything can help set realistic expectations and prioritize what’s most important.
Tip: Search for sample wedding budgets online that match your guest count and location. Tools like spreadsheets or wedding budget calculators can also help break down costs, so you know where your money is going.
Choose your own Traditions
First-look moments are often shared with a father, but if you have close siblings, especially brothers, it can be a meaningful touch to include them. Many brides regret not realizing that they could have had this special moment captured, especially if they have a close bond with their brothers.
Tip: Think about the people who have played a big role in your life. First-look moments don’t have to follow traditions—you can create your own!
Budget for Hidden Expenses
You spend so much time (and money) finding the dress, but many brides forget to budget for its aftercare. Whether you plan to preserve it or just get it cleaned, professional gown preservation can cost hundreds of dollars, but it’s worth it to keep your dress in great condition.
Tip: Research preservation services early and ask your bridal shop for recommendations. If you plan to sell your dress later, proper cleaning and storage will help retain its value.
Spend money on things that Matter to you
It’s easy to feel pressure to include every Pinterest-worthy detail—personalized cocktail napkins, elaborate favors, fancy signage, but in reality, guests often don’t notice or remember them. Many brides wish they had saved money on these extras and spent it on things that actually mattered to them, like photography or entertainment.
Tip: If it’s not something you personally care about, cut it from the budget! Guests will remember the experience, not the monogrammed stir sticks.
Have only one Wedding Dress
The trend of having a second (or even third) dress for the reception is fun, but not a necessity. Many brides feel pressure to change into a shorter or more dance-friendly dress, only to realize later that they didn’t need it. If you love your wedding dress, there’s no rule that says you have to switch.
Tip: If you want a different look for the reception but don’t want to buy another dress, consider small changes like switching accessories, adding a belt, or pinning up your train.
Do You!
Wedding planning comes with a lot of decisions, but the biggest takeaway from real brides? Do what makes you happy. Traditions, trends, and expectations should never come before what feels right for your wedding day. Focus on what truly matters to you, and don’t sweat the rest.